
Disproving the Thoroughbred Chestnut Mare Stereotype








At the crossing with sunset
The gal who bought my draft cross has a little quote on her Facebook page that often makes me smile. "If you are lucky enough to own a good horse, you are lucky enough." Knowing I sold her her "good horse" gives me warm fuzzies and they are truly well matched and having a great time together. I sold that particular mare, despite being a quiet, safe, happy plodding horse, because I had to choose between her and Be.
And I have to say, I am lucky enough to own a good horse too.
I think back to the stuff I've put Be through that she's accepted, and I really am impressed by her. Last night, yet again, I loaded her by myself, by herself, into the trailer and got her nice and secure, putting up butt bar and the ramp while she stood there looking back at me (yes, she can turn her head around to watch and likes to). I don't wonder if she will get on the trailer, or if she'll be anxious about trailering alone, in the dark, in the cold. I know I won't have a horse broken into a wet sweat with nerves when we get where we are going. My trailer wiring decided to do some shorting in the cold for some reason so I'm worrying about the dim running lights and watching her inside light flicker off and on in the trailer, and I know she's not worrying about the strobe light effect. I get to the barn and have most lights but the running lights are still dim and the interior light is off. With this in my mind, I open the top doors, go in the escape door and hook my lead to her halter, go back around to the ramp and let that down and the butt bar and give her tail a soft tug to tell her to back off.
Be backs one step nicely, then there is a short struggle, the trailer rocks, and she backs the rest of the way off a bit quickly onto the snowy pavement. Quickly noticing my mare is now halterless, I do grab the only thing still on her body, which is a sweat cooler I put on her for post ride cooling. Yes, I'm thinking so much about the darn lighting issue that I forgot to unhook my mare's halter. So I can lead her a little here and there with my hand under her chin but she's really giving me that "what's going on now" look. I got her to the side door close enough to unhook her halter from the tie but I couldn't reach it when it fell to the bottom and she didn't want to get closer as it would put her head in that dark hole with me if she did. So we stood there, looking at each other placidly, waiting for someone to save us lol I didn't even have a carrot, a string, anything to put around her head/neck and try to lead her with more effectively so what could I do? I didn't want to go far from the trailer as I knew she knew the trailer and was use to hovering around me like a shadow while I did things next to it so I figured it was safer then trying to make it around the barn into the door where there was no light yet.
About 5 minutes later a student and her non-horsey dad came up the drive in their little car. I'm quickly debating how to tell them I need their help but don't need their car right up near us. I make all kinds of funky gestures, stop ones toward the driver, frantic pointing at the passenger (the student) and then to Be's naked head. In the end they come a car length behind my trailer ramp, and the student jumps out. Elated, I tell her Be slipped her halter and I need her help. For some reason, she comes over to us as if she should now hold Be by her blanket while I get the halter. Errr, how about going in the trailer for me and getting the halter, particularly since my mare knows me a bit better and visa versa lol She says oh, and gets her halter (which, despite a break away, she did just slip and not break) and I put it on a relieved looking Be. Then she starts to walk back to the car and I call her back asking if she'd mind grabbing the lead out of there too, please and thank you. Clipped Be up and we were back to normal :)
We navagated around the barn in the dark and the inside was indeed unlit. This is always fun as there is often hay right on the inside of the double door, and the stallion, and sometimes cats, or a wheel barrow, or other things that a person could navagate but a horse might not. I think I'm the only ship in this time of year so I don't think Be navagating stuff in the dark is remembered too often. More points for my good horse, she has always followed me from one environment to another without question. I get her in a nice stall with the hay I brought (heaven knows she's earned it) and she makes herself at home like always. No wide eyes. No calling to others. This is how she travels. She settles right in and blends in.
I get the trailer parked, get the wiring partly resolved (still no interior light), and get back to the barn with the rest of her gear. Brushing her out in cross ties next to the stallion and the new horse, she couldn't be better behaved. Other horses pass by her, no problem. Tack her up and we join a youngster on his second ride in about a year out in the arena. He's walking fast but behaved, and his owner just does a little walk trot before putting him away. She likes Be because the youngster's mom was also a chestnut TB mare and she has a special affinity for them. She's one of the barn boarders who have seen Be come along over the last year and she's very encouraging for us. While I'm adjusting my tack, I'm watching another rider who's joined us up on a school pony. The pony is shying and proping in the dark corner. Be's ignoring him.
I get on Be from the ground (need to make friends with the mounting block one of these days) and join the other two on the rail. The pony falls in behind Be, making her the "brave leader". Warm up walk goes uneventful, and we pick up the reins when told. The pony's rider, same one who rescued me and Be out in the parking lot, now has a crop and the pony is power walking (grin). Be and I go through the walk, the trot, the working trot, the collected trot (nice nice sitting collected trots!) and like last ride I'm in for the canter. I've been doing half the canter work, but my instructor said after the last ride where I did just fine with only a little bucking that the canter is mine alone to do so we're doing it.
I get a nice trot, go into a corner, outside rein, inside leg and squeeze and boom, we're cantering just like everyone else. Nice, collected, rhythmic canter that's not going to mow down the other horses (the pony was doing that LOL) and not crawling along either. We went and went and you could just feel how happy Be was to be moving. I didn't feel like a sack of potatos this time, nor was she bucking, threatening to buck, or doing much of anything wrong. Around and around we went, and as I got more comfortable I would give her a little more or take a little back and vary the canter stride. It was cool!
We all transitioned down and walked for a bit. I took a moment to set the camera up for one of the onlookers and she took video of us going the other direction. I don't look like a sack of potatos either, and Be is carrying herself so nicely! Even my instructor says she's muscling up in the shoulders and rear differently, and I feel how effortlessly she moves off her back end. Love it! We hit a couple wrong leads going that way (clockwise) but that's not unusual with a TB and we would come down to a trot and try again and pick up the right one. I had a wonderful time, and she really was my good horse under me, helping me stay balanced and comfortable with whatever turn or circle we took. No more cornering like a motorcycle on the turns. Not one buck. After that we took another little break and I was going to call it a night. I swung down and started walking her out while the girls rested. I looked at the jump, an oxer (X shape) that was potentially higher then the little downed rail we popped over last time. Then I looked at Be and she looked at me and I looked at my instructor and said if I trot into the jump like last time, do you think she would continue at a trot afterwards? She said probably, which is instructor speak for just try it, so I swung back up.
I asked for a trot and she gave me a spiffy one. I wrestled with her a bit while my instructor, a note of concern in her raised voice, says don't try the jump until you have her collected and slowed down. No problem, I had no intention of doing anything until I felt secure lol I get her into a lovely collected trot of medium impulsion, and aim for that jump. No ground pole, no wings, no baby hop this time, we're jumping! I put my knees against her, tilt forward at what in retrospect felt like the exact right moment, and Be's ears went magically up as her body released a lovely springing action behind me and over we went. It was smooth, I didn't mess with her head, and somehow I was still there on the other side of the jump. Of course, by letting her head go she did take it upon herself to hit the ground running with a spiffy canter, which may have partly been my fault as I know I grazed her belly with my left heel. Hmmm. But I was in good enough a position to stay with her, make the quick turn to the right at speed, and even felt her automatically switch leads in the turn. Wow. I brought her back to a trot, then a walk, and released my breath. That was different. My instructor said that was a real jump. Huh. I *can* do a real jump. I filed that away for later when I need more confidence and we called it a night, cooling out as we watched the other girls pop the jump and get a running stream of corrective commentary.
Be got her much-deserved carrots and we headed for home. She loaded back into the trailer without hesistation. I even remembered to unhook her halter this time when we got home. She unloaded peacefully, as if my earlier folly never occured. Marched through the dark past the shadows and the cows and the sheep with their bell ringing to the barn and tucked her right into her stall where she proceeded to make the treat begging face. Gave her some carrot slices to entertain her while I got the rest of her and Marie's dinner prepared and brushed her out while she ate. Perfect.
I am lucky enough to own a good horse.
Be pushing away the cows
Be amongst cows
Sea-gee the camera diva

The stallion with his sheep









